Jun 12

To Love and To Be Free

Do you know that 12th of June is Philippine Independence Day?

And do you know that the same date is Brazilian Valentines Day?

 

For Filipinos, this special day commemorates freedom from the hands of Spanish colonizers. In 1898, three hundred thirty-three years of subservience and oppression finally came to a close. It is an important page in our history as the Philippine nation started to discover its own identity.

Meanwhile, on the other side of the world, Brazilians celebrate it as a day of love. Unlike the majority who glorify this most intense of  human emotions on the 14th of February, Brazilians do so mid-year. I asked my friends of how this came to be. Answers I got varied from February coinciding with carnivale (an arguably bigger celebration in their country), that maybe it’s because Brazilians tend to be late (funny but I dare not pass judgment if true or mere jest), and down to simple social economics (marking the occasion to a different month resulted in better sales). Whatever the reason is, it’s definitely unique.

 

So Brazilians are celebrating love on the same day that Filipinos are celebrating independence.

At first, I wasn’t sure whether to regard it funny or strange or both. But letting the idea sink in for a while, I realized that perhaps it makes perfect sense.

 

Maybe freedom can be considered a kind of love. After all, Philippine heroes have sacrificed in the name of fighting for the honor of their beloved “Pearl of the Orient Sea.” Today, we battle “internal evils” in the name of this beautiful land we call home. It can be challenging, but we remain proud of our heritage.

And perhaps love is a kind of freedom. love is fundamentally choosing to care for another person. You consciously decide, of free will, to share your life with another.

Love. Freedom. They are perhaps the two cornerstones of a truly fulfilled human life, and each has a significant relation to the other.

 

Happy Valentines to Brazilians out there!
Happy Independence Day to my beloved countrymen!

 

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May 25

Lil Miss Fashionista: How to Wear Coloured Trousers

When my very dear and long-time friend Rome visited me in Copenhagen, we took advantage of a sunny day to view the sights of the city in matching coloured trousers ;-)

Rachelle and Rome at Kildevaeldsparken

Rachelle and Rome at Kildevaeldsparken
Rocking pink and red coloured trousers!

COPENHAGEN WITH ROME (Rachelle in Pink Coloured Pants)

Rachelle’s Look
Pink trousers with a thin brown belt, white tee, multi-coloured vest, white flats with cut-out details, white Aldo bag with brown trimming, white Swatch with colourful hearts on the face of the watch, colourful dangling earrings, ivory bracelets with native print, sunglasses

COPENHAGEN WITH ROME (Rome in Red Coloured Pants)

Rome’s Look
Red trousers, white off-shoulder blouse, red bra, navy blue sailor cap, striped sailor-themed flats, gold bangle, sunglasses

 

Brightly coloured jeans and slacks can be tricky. It requires a sense of whimsy and a dose of confidence to pull of these not-your-average bottoms. But my dear fashionistas, stick to these tips and make it work!

Lil’ Miss Fashionista Tips:

  • Balance the look with a white top. This draws the right amount of attention on your coloured trousers while keeping you from appearing like colour-blind fashion roadkill.
  • A thin belt helps to emphasize your shape. It also adds more dimension to the coloured bottom.
  • Accessorize! If you are already making a statement with the pants, take it up a notch with tastefully chosen pieces that reflect your unique personality.

 

You may also want to read: How to Wear Animal Print

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May 25

Lil’ Miss Kikay Fashionista: Hot Nail Polish Shades for Spring

Apply a shade of spring on your hands and feet!

This season is the perfect opportunity to experiment with BOLD colours. Go with delish neons for that young, carefree vibe.

spring colours (6)

At brunch, a hot cappuccino and some hot pink! ;-)

spring colours (7)

Ultra feminine!
A soft pink sweater with pearl buttons and pink nails

After the lazy brunch, my friend Lamia and I headed to the park with our pink and coral digits shown off in sandals. It was a beautiful, relaxing afternoon lying down on the grass on a clear day.

hot nail polish shades for spring

 

Get the Look: We are big fans of OPI. My absolute favorite is the hot pink “Kiss me on my Tulips” and on Lamia is the quirky orange-tinged “Suzi’s Hungary Again

 

You may also want to read: Eeny, meeny, miny, moe…

and Art at Your Fingertips!

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May 22

Wanderlust Finds: A Kiss is a Kiss is a Kiss (Berlin, Germany)

What’s in a kiss?

Henry Finck says it’s an autograph of love.

According to Jeanne Bourgeois, a kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point - a lover’s grammatical expression.

Faith Hill sings “It’s centrifugal motion. It’s perpetual bliss.”

 

In Germany, a kiss is served with a side of political statement.

Berlin Wall THE KISS 1

Dmitri Vrubel’s photograph “My God, help me to survive this deadly love” is definitely a sight that calls for a second, third and fourth look among the art lining up Berlin Wall’s East Side Gallery.

It features Soviet leader Leonid Brezhnev and East German leader Erich Honecker in a liplock. Taken in 1979 after a speech, the gesture perked media interest and is now one of the most famous images around the world.

Berlin Wall THE KISS 2 I found this piece most interesting as it communicated a lot, without any explanation. Brotherhood despite differing political opinion? A show for the public? A typical gesture dramatized? It’s up to your interpretation.Berlin Wall THE KISS 3

 

Kisses from Berlin,

XoXo

XoXo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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You may also want to read: Wanderlust Finds: Teddies All Around BEAR-Lin

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May 19

A Reflection with Rilke in Prague

Sharing a nugget of wisdom from one of my favorite writers, as I did some reflection wandering around the streets of Prague, Czech Republic:

“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue.

Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them.

And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”

Rilke reflection moment in Prague

 

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May 18

Spring in Prague: Zen at the Garden

As Rainer Maria Rilke, a child of Prague, wrote:

“It is spring again.

The earth is like a child that knows poems by heart.”

 

in full bloom 1 in full bloom 2 in full bloom 3

 

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May 14

Lil’ Miss Fashionista: How to Wear Animal Print

In the jungle that is the fashion world, make a roaring statement with animal print!

My look centers on this zebra patterned jacket from Zara.

zebra print 1 zebra print 2 zebra print 3 zebra print 4

Lil’ Miss Fashionista Tips:

  • Animal print can be overwhelming, so use one statement pattern at a time. Sometimes less is more.
  • If you’re really feeling bold and want to work more prints in your outfit, keep them in the same color scheme. Don’t let leopard fight with tiger!
  • Always dress appropriately with the setting. For the office, this smart jacket set against classic black pants says style AND business. For a night out on the town, go all out with a short leopard dress. Pair a spotted hyena mini skirt or leggings with a cool shirt for a casual date.
  • My personal philosophy: While animal print is absolutely fabulous, there is no need to be cruel to nature’s creatures. I say no to real animal skin. Find quality textile patterned like the real thing instead.

 

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May 14

Dancing to the music of time

Today, I started dancing again. And it led me to this reflection…

We are all familiar with choreography – a series of organized, successive steps performed by the body, set in timing with music. When you think about it, life can be compared to this.

All our rituals and banalities, our responses, our smiles, our tears, the speed in which we talk, the activity of daily life… It is all part of the dance. We all dance to the music of time.

Whether yours is fast or slow, smooth and natural or just a little bit awkward, inside a small room or out in a grand stage: revel in the dance that is your life!

Move freely from one step to the next. Sway to the beat of your own music. Tap your feet. Don’t be afraid to take a dip. Own those moments with your “partner” and be one. Bask in the glory in the numbers where you are the lead with a whole group of “back-ups” following your shining star. And continue, even while you are alone when no one is watching.

Everything is rhythm.

Everything is beauty, love, and bliss.

 

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May 12

Wanderlust Photo Project: A Stroll Along Castle Hill (Budapest, Hungary)

Castle Hill, located in the Buda area of Budapest, is a palace complex consisting of a castle, churches, squares and public buildings. It has been the home of Hungarian kings. And in 1987, it has been declared a World Heritage Site.

On a beautiful sunny afternoon, my friend Rome and I allowed ourselves to be enchanted. When walking along Castle Hill, one discovers beauty in every street, every patch of green, every nook and cranny.

See for yourself…

Castle Hill 1 Castle Hill 2 Castle Hill 3 Castle Hill 4 Castle Hill 5

Next up: Prague, Czech Republic

You may also want to check out: Spring Fashion: Playing with Prints (Budapest, Hungary)

 

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May 08

Spring Fashion: Playing with Prints (Budapest, Hungary)

Prints are hot, hot, hot this spring 2013!

It looks great on people, and on buildings too! Here’s a perfect proof: the exquisitely designed roof of the Matthias Church sitting in Castle Hill in Budapest, Hungary.

IN PRINT Matthias Church

Taking after such architecture as fashion inspiration, here’s my outfit of the day: a green and white floral printed dress.

IN PRINT Rachelle

And here is my friend Rome who proves that print on print can work when smartly styled.

IN PRINT Rome

 

 

More entries on travelling to Budapest, coming soon!

You may also want to check out: Welcoming Spring!

 

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